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One True Original Me Only one year older

Wow Sugar I applaud your character and strength!! I know for sure I don't have that will power! When you do find the one with the qualities you expect he will definitely respect you.

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I say single life can be hard cuz sometime u get reallllllllllllyyyyyyy lonely but its better off being lonely and happy than to be in a relationship where u have to answer to ur spouse about the everything......so yea mi go widd its easier!!!!!!!!

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To the most important person in my life that puts a smile on my face everyday.........MY MOM.......love u always

At this very moment that im writing this post i feel really really lonely, i would love to go to the clubbing but all my friends are busy with their boyfriends, so i dont have any company to go clubbing with anymore.

But i turn to the net and ETJ site have me occupied so that i dont think about be loneliness and make myself depressed, i do things to occupy my time by going to the gym, shopping and ocassional walking or jogging.

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One True Original Me Only one year older

Hmmm... I think it's very difficult to be single these days. We're bombarded with all the messages about sex and relationships in the media and elsewhere. So many people just feel pressured into being in a relationship to the point that when they are not, they are miserable. They've been conditioned to think that in order for them to be happy, or to be normal, they have to be in a relationship. If you're talking about being single and remaining celebate and happy, then that's a whole other set of hardships. However, being single means less self sacrifice and responsibility only for yourself, so I think it's easier than being in a relationship.

The thing is, what kind of relationship are we thinking about? Girlfriend-boyfriend? Marriage? Pay-for-play? I think the toughest relationship to have these days is the traditional old time "For better or for worse" marriage. The other kinds have incorporated various "exit clauses" and loopholes that have reduced the amount of sacrifice and hard work that used to be a part of intimate relationships. Staying married, faithful and happy seems to be the biggest challenge out there these days. Divorce statistics are pointing to that. The fact that in a committed relationship you have to put your needs aside many times to meet the needs of the union/family/couple makes it much tougher than being on your own.

I beleive each individual is different and can cope with things that others cant

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One True Original Me Only one year older

It has advantages and disadvantages . Yeah it's nice to be your own boss and come and go as you please, without having to worry about what the other persons feels. But on the other hand it's nice to have someone who's there for you emotionally and physically.
It's also down to the individual

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Life is what
you make it

Same mistake twice huh. Mind if I ask what the first mistake was ?

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Confucious say "he who knows not and knows that he knows not, is a child, teach him"

Mi first mistake was ever dating at all. I regret that so much, simply because i can never get my gem back.

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One True Original Me Only one year older

Sugar Plum you know that we all make mistakes, but we learn and move on. It is never the end of the world just because of one bad mistake or broken heart.

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mek mi tell unu str8, ina dis whats it whats it

single life nuh easier caw a constant hunt (unless yuh ava buddy or yuha joe grind)

too much hunting man, 1 here, slap move on 2 there slap move on, an liek some man all av more dan one, no man, mi nuh like tell lie to people still, so a nuh mi dat.

now wehn yuh av a one queen pon a ends, yuh jus call dat, an if shi naw do nutten yuh mek shi know yuha fwd, an shi nuh affi ax weh di long magga man a come fah. MY TINGS!

an if yh wah ends out wid r yuh ends out.

but each av it pros and cons

single pros

anything, anythime, anywhere.
no attachments
free to whore
lef dat anytime
can go weh mi want wid who mi want

single cons

the constant hunt
it very tireing
usually involves lieing a lot
you dont really get to know di person
STDs
you always have to keep your gaurd up (that is work too)
nuh matta wah yuh affi always use boots
yuh nuh know if dem a do di same ting


NOW

non-single pros
no beggin an convincing fi MY TINGS
wuk dat anywhere, anytime, anyplace
ALL kinda freaky tings allowed
NO LIENG
you know that person so well
you can talk to them
you can cry on dem
your allowed to be affectionate wid dem
yuh can be soft wid dem an wont look like a punk (untill unu bruk up )
did i say wuk dat anywhere anytime anyhow + freaky $h!t$ + no long talking fi mi tings

non-single cons

yuh affi plan fi 2
yuh cya stare pon di hot girls dem nuh more
hot girls always want yuh as soon as sumadi book yuh, an dem neva want yuh b4
more while it hard fi nuh stray
trust can backfire in a million ways
more while yuh cya roll out an ends out wid di bredrin dem
yuh affi spend $$$ on someone odda dat you.

I would be happy if i didnt lost my virginity (that was my gem)

i wish i wanted until i was married, because if i wanted it means that i would still be a virgin now because im not married yet.

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One True Original Me Only one year older

Listen mr snik, im single and i havent done anything for 1 year and 7 months so you si me i cant get involve in those STDs and sh**.


Im not looking simple, at the moment im independent i go where i want and get myself whatever i want and i dont have to answer to nobody simple. I dont have any stress on my head str8.

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One True Original Me Only one year older

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mi nuh av nuh beef wid unu yuh kow. mi jus a gi unu a man point a view str8.
so tek it ow unu want it.