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Old 05-22-2007, 02:25 PM
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So it matter to you if....

Your boy child,at an early age shows tendency to love playing with dolls rather than action figure toys and other boys toys.
As well as to comb girls hair and play with make-up kits etc.?

OR

Your girl child hates dolls and make-up kits and prefers action figures and rough-housing with boys and doing the things that boys like to do?

Would you consider either of them as abnormal and as such seek professional help for them?
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Old 05-22-2007, 02:29 PM
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Re: So it matter to you if....

NO...

nothing is wrong with them... some people just like different things...
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Old 05-22-2007, 02:30 PM
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Re: So it matter to you if....

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NO...

nothing is wrong with them... some people just like different things...
An if di bway start wearing him sistah dresses?
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Old 05-22-2007, 02:32 PM
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Re: So it matter to you if....

He is still my child...

I'll love him no matter what.
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Old 05-22-2007, 02:36 PM
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He is still my child...

I'll love him no matter what.
Wi wudda love in too...wid di belt crass im battam.

On second thought.. .No, mi wouldnt used di belt...Nexx ting im go love di spanking too much.
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Old 05-22-2007, 02:37 PM
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Re: So it matter to you if....

The more you try to "force" a child to be something they aren't the more resentment and disrespect they will have for you...

I'm saying there are bigger battles to fight than whether they like dolls and dresses or not...
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Old 05-22-2007, 02:41 PM
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The more you try to "force" a child to be something they aren't the more resentment and disrespect they will have for you...

I'm saying there are bigger battles to fight than whether they like dolls and dresses or not...
Dats true.

But my Bwoy naw go grow up playin wid no dress, dolly and lips-stick????

Mi grow up like dat and see what it do to me?!!!!
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Old 05-22-2007, 02:41 PM
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An if di bway start wearing him sistah dresses?

Why do you assume a potentially gay male would wear female clothing...?

Nuff 'straight' men cross-dress but would never consider homosexual encounters....

In answer to your question, no need for medical intervention - there's nothing wrong....!
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Old 05-22-2007, 02:44 PM
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Nuff 'straight' men cross-dress but would never consider homosexual encounters....

Never used the word "GAY" at all.

Anyway...Please explain the statement above.
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Why do you assume a potentially gay male would wear female clothing...?

Nuff 'straight' men cross-dress but would never consider homosexual encounters....

In answer to your question, no need for medical intervention - there's nothing wrong....!
i have to dissagre......small children maybe...VERY SMALL.....but schol age he /sheshould know betta......

in dc the gay/gomosexual/lesbian thing is sooooooo prominant (recently) that they hav to announce in high shchools specifically that there are to be no same sex couples....cuz the parties turn into a gay party.....

mothers and fathers lett hier daugherts do the tom-boy thing to keept he boys away...but now the girls have taken ober...you reaely see a straight teenage couple in this area anymore
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i have to dissagre......small children maybe...VERY SMALL.....but schol age he /sheshould know betta......

in dc the gay/gomosexual/lesbian thing is sooooooo prominant (recently) that they hav to announce in high shchools specifically that there are to be no same sex couples....cuz the parties turn into a gay party.....

mothers and fathers lett hier daugherts do the tom-boy thing to keept he boys away...but now the girls have taken ober...you reaely see a straight teenage couple in this area anymore
What part you disagree with?
Cause there is NO WAY my bwoy is gonna grow up with female tendancies and i consider that as "normal".

Yu musse MAdddd!!!!
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Re: So it matter to you if....

Some boys are just naturally feminine... some girls are just naturally masculine... that doesn't make them queer.
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What part you disagree with?
Cause there is NO WAY my bwoy is gonna grow up with female tendancies and i consider that as "normal".

Yu musse MAdddd!!!!
i dissageed with jels comment which is why i quoted her....look again.
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What part you disagree with?
Cause there is NO WAY my bwoy is gonna grow up with female tendancies and i consider that as "normal".

Yu musse MAdddd!!!!
So what would you do if your son did show these tendencies????
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i dissageed with jels comment which is why i quoted her....look again.

Which bit???? 'cos it confused me too....
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