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Old 05-13-2007, 08:18 PM
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Re: Holiday Romance/ Meaningful Relationship?

well I think that is digusting.... but I must add, if everyone is adult up front and truthful about what they want then that is their business. I wouldnt do it, but I guess that works for some folks.
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Old 05-14-2007, 12:41 AM
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some women to be the predators, regularly frequenting holiday destinations for the sole purpose of picking up and using men for sex.........what say you?
I personally think it's real sad. Of course it happens and always will, but I never understood how a woman could degrade herself to this level. Same goes for the men too.... for anyone to give or take for pure purpose of having sex is wrong. No self worth, no morals, no sense of God.... juss very, very sad..... and I believe it's summed up as prostitution....
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Old 05-14-2007, 12:53 AM
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Re: Holiday Romance/ Meaningful Relationship?

hmmm.. now maybe spice will try to stop bribin mi to go out wit her... muahahaha..


on a serious note.. agreed wit wha is said above
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Old 05-14-2007, 01:17 AM
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hmmm.. now maybe spice will try to stop bribin mi to go out wit her... muahahaha..


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Re: Holiday Romance/ Meaningful Relationship?

I have to agree with what Spice said on the whole men situation. Good points.

I, too, find anyone who preys on anyone disgusting. Add sex and money (gifts, whatever) to the situation, and I find it to be a subtle form of prostitution. Nothing more.
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Old 05-14-2007, 10:50 AM
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Be aware of ones surroundings, heed all red flags....which are and not limited too: request for money, baby mother still around, many children from more then one ooman, perfect situation (too good to be true), marriage proposal when you have only physically been with the dude for toooo short of a time ..ie: 7 days, etc....

Woman need to be realistic and not live in a fantasy world. Fantasies are short lived and when reality hits and your too deep, it's much harder to get out. One should listen to family and friends advice (well...some of them anyhow), and....gut instinct is usually right on..listen to it!

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Old 05-14-2007, 10:55 AM
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Well I co-sign with everything spice said......but the most important thing is listen to your inner voice, we all to often ignore our own lil barrometer that we have built right into us.
I would beg to differ.

At times it is our own "lil barrometer" that monitors the temperature of the heart rather than of the head; and as such provides the false reading that get us in trouble.
For it tells us not what is reported by the common senses, but rather... our emotional senses.

I'm sure we have all experienced tha at some time.
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OK.........Lets flip the coin.......just as some men have been described as predators of possibly naive women it is a regular occurance for some women to be the predators, regularly frequenting holiday destinations for the sole purpose of picking up and using men for sex.........what say you?
Oh, Without a doubt.

To put a twist on it, there are instances of (often married, with children) women who are held in high esteem by ther local communities, churches, PTA; who takes vacations alone or with an accomplise girlfriend.

These 'Ladies of the season', often professionals, takes these girlie vacations simply to escape the realities of their normal lives just to experience the ecstacy of unsolicited affairs.
THEY single out the men at these resorts and make no secret of their intents.

Then at the end of these escapades, they return home and go back to their "normal" lives, as if nothing happened.

No Strings attached.

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I would beg to differ.

At times it is our own "lil barrometer" that monitors the temperature of the heart rather than of the head; and as such provides the false reading that get us in trouble.
For it tells us not what is reported by the common senses, but rather... our emotional senses.

I'm sure we have all experienced tha at some time.
Oh you may be right, but that is not what i refer to here. If you ask anyone who has been through a relationship where there was deciet, you will find most saw signs, and had the voice tell them to question it, but they choose to listen to the heart rate thing instead. The inner voice I speak of comes from your head not your heart....we all have it, when something isnt right, but if we do something about it, isnt always easy or what we want so we ignore it.
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Sadly, the only way you learn some of this stuff is to first experience the pain of it.
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Oh you may be right, but that is not what i refer to here. If you ask anyone who has been through a relationship where there was deciet, you will find most saw signs, and had the voice tell them to question it, but they choose to listen to the heart rate thing instead. The inner voice I speak of comes from your head not your heart....we all have it, when something isnt right, but if we do something about it, isnt always easy or what we want so we ignore it.
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but I must add, if everyone is adult up front and truthful about what they want then that is their business.
What if they are not honest.......what if the man is misled to think that the relationship can be more than what the woman really intends it to be and as a result ends up being used?........would you be as sympathetic to the man as we are to women??.........men and women please respond
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I believe it's summed up as prostitution....
Interesting........so in such a situation who do you believe to be most at fault.....the prostitute or the punter (a soh yuh spell it?.....times like this I wish Wahoo was here )
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What if they are not honest.......what if the man is misled to think that the relationship can be more than what the woman really intends it to be and as a result ends up being used?........would you be as sympathetic to the man as we are to women??.........men and women please respond
I would be sympathetic to the one being used. I hate for anyone to get hurt.
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Sadly, the only way you learn some of this stuff is to first experience the pain of it.
Well thank God I have not experienced it but I would hope that I'd be wise to it all the same.
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