Originally Posted by Johnny127

Mi naw attack yu, so dont get vexx, but...

If you " will continue as (You) have always to make (your) decisions based on each individual and how they interact with (you)", whats to stop you from making the same mistake again and again?

Originally Posted by Hotteach

Mi nah vex....jus giu mi opinion.....yu si mi....

What will stop me...I dunno Faith I guess, that if my heart is pure I will be rewarded, with the same in return. I believe people are good, until they prove otherwise, I always will, sometimes I get burned for it, sometimes I don't!

Originally Posted by Johnny127

Well, Good luck to you, Dawlin.
Fool mi once, shame on you, fool me twice....

Mi know yu nevva ask mi advise but...If I were you...In the next relationship, I would spend more time wid the person, dem close relatives and friends.
Get to know de person "as a friend" before making them yu lover.

If the situation is di same: LDR, then invest some time into getting to reely know dem before you give dem yu heart.

Sorry, but I dont believ in the adage that if you give your heart willingly, the same will be returned.
No sah!

You give yu heart wilingly...mekk absolutely sure you leave it in good hands.

Originally Posted by Hotteach

Thanks Dad...I will take your advice under consideration...Idid much of what you suggest, i do know his relatives, his mother lives 20 min away from me, still talk to her. And Like I said to you the other day...i do have a tendancy toward leading with my heart...its who i am...not gonna let this situation make me jaded.

And BTW short of being psychic, there is no sure way to know what will happen with love sometimes you have to take a risk in order to experience the kind of love I did, like Jel said some people never have that I had it if only for a while.

Originally Posted by Johnny127

aarite, Aaarite.

A tell yu wha!

De nexx time, leav yu 'aart wid me and JAS,wi wi take good care of it fah you, until yu need it.. aaarite?

Originally Posted by Hotteach

Ok................

Originally Posted by Johnny127

OFFTOPIC...HT,Which do you prefer to be? The Candle or the Mirrror?

Originally Posted by Hotteach

It changes depending on the light I want to spread......If its light from within me I am the candle....If It's someone elses light I am the mirror

Originally Posted by Hotteach

Well I mos def like to spread my own light......leading with my heart and all.....lololol

Originally Posted by Johnny127

LOL
OK.

Originally Posted by Hotteach

Don't laugh at me Mr. Johnny.....I really believe that the universe is a good place, and if that is the light I shine....then it will be!

And don't kid yourself for a minute, cause no matter who or what Danville is or was , he is forever changed in some way from the true love that I shined on him.

Originally Posted by Johnny127

Not laughing AT you, Darlin...but WITH you.

I am more convinced now (as I said before) that you have more heart than I originally thought. Irrespective of any other opinions, I think you are OK. Just a hopeless darling like many others.


Just keep on being true.

Originally Posted by Hotteach

I will always be true to myself, in hindsite this is a better answer to your question earlier about how will I keep from making the same mistake over and over, being true to myself, thats how!