Because I am Jamaican and I know, and any Jamaican (especially women) who are true to themselve and are realiastic will tell if I am lieing or not.
Yard man nuh treat yard women as they treat foreign women. It's very much different. Yall (if you are not Jamaican) get better treatment.
Relish, That is oh so NOT TRUE. Jamaican men are NOT noted to treat "foreign" women better than they treat their own.
I think that your personal case is based on the "new car" syndrome. You know...The one where you will treat your new car with kid gloves, wash and wax it every week, until you get "use" to it? Then it would be lucky if its washed even once per year?
In otherwords, maybe its based on the fact that because your man has been around jamaican women for so long, then the "foreign" women seems more like a novelty. In time, that same man will treat her no better than he would, his jamaican woman.
99.9 % of the Jamaican men I know, will treat their Jamaican woman like a queen. Though he may get involved, love or even marry a foreign woman he will never treat her any better (or any worst) than he would his native woman.
Most jamaican men are "color blind" and does not look for love based on ethnic or racial background. Certainly we may have our racial or ethnic preferences, but once the choice has been made, the "treatment" is based on the individual relationship.
Ironically, in most "bad" cases I have heard of, the Jamaican man at the end of a relationship with a "foreign" woman, "returns" to a woman of jamaican descent.
__________________ "In this great future, you can't forget your past. " Bob Marley (1945 - 1981)
You may have a point but, why are there so many wrong guys for us to be attracted to?
Because: 1. There are more women available than there are, men: Supply and demand. Men are aware of this and so they play "Room for Rent, apply within.....when one jump out, another jumps in".
2. Women are not attracted to "nice" guys. They are more attracted to "hansome, ouspoken, flashy" guys. Guys who they think will look good infront of their friends. They dont want the quiet, boring, homebody guy who is more interested in watching NationalGeographic rather than hanging out with his buddies and watching the superbowl.
3.. Women are desperate to SETTLE down, with a man. Men are desperate to LIE down,with a woman.
__________________ "In this great future, you can't forget your past. " Bob Marley (1945 - 1981)
Do note that if I ever find a good one.. I am stickin on dat like crazy glue.. I luv mi sum Jamaican man ... Upto now I can still take it.. as I grow "wiser" I'll probably stop
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I listen to the messages that come from my heart...
Exactly!!!! sounds like you know fram experience....
Yep. Thats me!
Not the bad case of herpes though.
I think what it boils down to is, we are never truly done.
Though we may not ever "get back" together there is always some feelings of sentiments that are worth holding on to; and so we honor that by keeping in touch.
__________________ "In this great future, you can't forget your past. " Bob Marley (1945 - 1981)
Because: 1. There are more women available than there are, men: Supply and demand. Men are aware of this and so they play "Room for Rent, apply within.....when one jump out, another jumps in".
2. Women are not attracted to "nice" guys. They are more attracted to "hansome, ouspoken, flashy" guys. Guys who they think will look good infront of their friends. They dont want the quiet, boring, homebody guy who is more interested in watching NationalGeographic rather than hanging out with his buddies and watching the superbowl.
3.. Women are desperate to SETTLE down, with a man. Men are desperate to LIE down,with a woman.
First you want to know the reasons why we are dogs. Then when we bark, you call dem silly excuses.
Bwoy,You women can never be satisfied.
Well , I guess you have the answers then, huh?
But you do realize they are silly excuses though?
You know, I will never settle with a man with an open mindset on those kind of "excuses".
Like a really good friend of mine, her hubby is really a dog, I mean, he paints every town red and when he gets caught redhanded (in the bed they share) his always response to that he is a man and men are dogs, and beg for forgivness...then my shoulder becomes the burden to bear her problems. Aye sah. I will NEVER settle knowingly for that at all.
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Your best can be someone else's worse!
I think what it boils down to is, we are never truly done.
Though we may not ever "get back" together there is always some feelings of sentiments that are worth holding on to; and so we honor that by keeping in touch.
This is ridiculous really, and so darn selfish.. how are "We" suppose to move on if you guys dont let us go? If you keep callin.. etc. Its not easy gettin' a JA man outta yu life... been deh... TRIED that.. still no success!.. my weakness is not the only factor for this
__________________ I live by the rules of my most dedicated body part,
I listen to the messages that come from my heart...
This is ridiculous really, and so darn selfish.. how are "We" suppose to move on if you guys dont let us go? If you keep callin.. etc. Its not easy gettin' a JA man outta yu life... been deh... TRIED that.. still no success!.. my weakness is not the only factor for this
This has nothing to do with the man being Jamaican. Stalkers exist in all races. Plenty women stalkers out there too.
__________________ "Blessed are ye, when men shall revile you, and persecute you, and shall say all manner of evil against you falsely, for my sake." - Matthew 5 v11 KJV
I don't know how many stalking incidents turn out to be dangerous, but all stalking does have the potential to become dangerous.
__________________ "Blessed are ye, when men shall revile you, and persecute you, and shall say all manner of evil against you falsely, for my sake." - Matthew 5 v11 KJV
I don't know how many stalking incidents turn out to be dangerous, but all stalking does have the potential to become dangerous.
Pick your memory and tell me how many news you've seen on tv or heard on radio of female stalkers taking their stalking an inch further to something like killing or kidnapping.
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Your best can be someone else's worse!
Pick your memory and tell me how many news you've seen on tv or heard on radio of female stalkers taking their stalking an inch further to something like killing or kidnapping.
__________________ "Blessed are ye, when men shall revile you, and persecute you, and shall say all manner of evil against you falsely, for my sake." - Matthew 5 v11 KJV