My answer to this is..... if I didn't have to sleep with him! Then again if he's were in good shape has all his teeth has a good sence of fun......maybe!

Um...no I don't think so. But I never say never. That means when I become 40 and then he will be 65....hmm....do I hear viagra. Also, he must be really rich, a dynamic person, well fit and strong, and flexible, then I'll probably think about it.

I can handle 10yrs to 12 yrs older but not so much as 25-30 yrs older.

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and he must be able to give yu body a good work out too nuh true Princessblack?

You know it....a good work out up until him 100 yrs old.

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Yeah I can be sometimes..... a bad gal!

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I wouldn't....
25 to 30 years older than me would be WELL into retirement and that's not my gig. I need myself a young buck....a steed....someone who's able to sex me without artificial ingredients! LOL.
Anyways, it seems now that I'm in my 30's (31) I'm a magnet for all these youngsters...makes me feel proud to be me.

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I dont think Jamaican Men in their forties or fifties have any problem 'keeping up' with sex..... just my opinion. not that i would know or anything, of course not!

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You know girl you are right but nevertheless I still wouldn't do it.

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its a tough thing to think about because you want someone who will be able to spend as much of your life with you as possible, not leave you a widow at like 50 you know. that would be really hard.....
i'm actually currently dealing with an older gentlemen, and i'm really torn about what to do...!?!?

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Really? My boyfriend/friend is 10 years older. He does the job well. But what is the problem rootsgirl?

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well, its an older guy that just happens to be my professors brother in law.. 23 years my senior. we met at a club and had instant Karma, he went home to NY the next day, we have talked on the phone everyday since then, built a very good friendship and relationship, he came in for a week, and it was great, i would def. say that I have super strong feelings for him, but, hes older, he's my prof's bro in law, and i just dont really know how to act on this... do i let this great guy slip away b/c of a number - - ???

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I would date an older woman as long as she hot and can manage fi me heat.

Roots girl, I would definately feel him out, take things slow, be yourself and cut-n go thru. It wil work out if it is meant to be.

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thanks princess - nah rush, mek jah decide.... (words he has told me) . I am thining about going to NY in a couple weeks to see him - his idea, i just spoke to him last night, he's in Kingston now at his moms house and figured out a way to call me from his laptop for free, cool huh?

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