I agree with you girl!

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“A woman should hide her heart so deep in Christ that a man would need to seek God first to find her" -Maya Angelou

Blessed VeeA--Remember no matter what anyone think or what anyones says--I know! I have dealt with both worlds with me being young at one time have an older man my moms age as you can see my story up above and now that I am older I have a younger husband.

You keep on lovin that man and don't ever let go because I can honestly tell you that he loves you more then you will ever know--it's like that with the generation gap. These relationships just work out better......

And when it came down to sex he was great! but it still wasn't about sex for me...It was about the warm and tender loving care he gave me and the respect and patience that he has for me-VeeA I am feelin you girl...I understand and I am on your side

God knows I still miss that old man right today and my heart still is in pain and sometimes I cry and now I do want to cry, and yes, I know I am married now but he was once apart of my life, and those were happy memories that I will never forget. Hey! it's a couple of people that I would like to hang out with around here on this site and you are on my list too....I like the way you think...

You tell your mom that if my daughter wanted to go out with an older man and if he makes her truly happy them I am happy.....Peace and Blessings Star

It's all according how well that man takes care of himself..I know a man that is 65yrs old that is ringing this girl's chimes and she is very happy, so don't knock it if you haven't tried it yet Hotness16. And Princessblack, I do like that fact that you said: You can never say never because I felt the same way with that old man and he captured my heart and now that he has passed away I am left with beautiful memories of he and I......

For real Star(and no pun intended).. your vibe puts my being at ease..it's cool.. it's like when I read your words my nerves calm down and with such I know that knowledge and wisdom is to follow..so I place a level of trust into your words and with this specifically I haven't been led down the wrong path*blessings for that still*!!..Anytime that you come up North you will have a home that will welcome ya

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A/K/A Mz.Bumpa or Bumpa

I would if she was beautiful, influential, active and spontaneous, free spirited,
healthy and definitely open minded to all things good or bad!
I find most mature woman are settled with life a little bit better than
younger woman. They've seen it all or most of it! They know what they
want and don't want.
They seem to be a little more freakier too! YEah BAby!
There was a article about woman 50 and older in Essence sometime
back. If any woman I meet look that good and in shape, they can get it!

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Let us never negotiate out of fear. But let us never fear to negotiate.

John F Kennedy

when I was 19 I dated a man that was 57.... He was a blast.... but he became a little too attached for me and I had to cut him loose...

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"Who can find a virtuous wife? For her worth is far above rubies"

Proverbs 31; 10

Hey! like I said young men run to me and old men run from me--and I admit--I am just too hot to handle--I have seen that issue of Essence and I love it because Black Women age so gracefully and wisdom is the essence of their beauty that they possess within. I only wish that more Black Queens would take the time to realize just how beautiful they are, "OF ALL AGES" and pamper themselves more. Yes, I understand their is work and children and even grandchildren, but then there is YOU! The Black Woman and you are special, we all are special and we must treat ourselves as such the Strong Black Queens that we are. We came from a long line of Royality since the beginning of time. Know who you are! Historically and take a stand towards believing it, even if others don't want to reveal it...The fact still remains--We ARE SOMEBODY! "Peace and Blessings Star"

Thanks so much for your kindness.....I just want to see everyone happy because I know that life is too short to be unhappy. I never try to discourage anyone but only to encourage Love, Peace and Happiness. The final outcome is always left up to whatever the person wants to do after I have shared my thoughts and feelings about the situation.

I may not always be right but I always try to help someone in a way that God would want me to......I am still striving to please God....and although not perfect I am still striving.

Even though my husband is younger then I, I never smother him. It's just the opposite, he tries to smother me....My husband came to me once and asked me could he go out with his sister's husband in Jamaica and I told him, no problem, go.

I then turned over and went to sleep and didn't wake up until he came home and woke me up talking about...I"m sorry I came in late and I told him very softely to go to sleep. I guess I am just a laid back person like "Twisty" was talking about.

I just don't like to argue, fuss or fight but now, don't get me wrong, if it's a fight that he wants, I can give him one but I don't have the time to waste on crazy madness.

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Dem neva Know,But dem Know Now !!

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Wow sounds like one of my nights.....lol Sooo fun gettin all the attention isn't it?

Attention is good as long as it is when you want it. I've had young one's turn into stalkers afterwards. They can be quite scary and really persistant. There is something to be said for maturity.

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If you've never stared off in the distance, then your life is a shame...

I am 23 and have a date tomorrow with a 40yr old! I am soooo lookin' forward to it!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

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I don't know much... but I know I luv you...
& that may be all I need to know!

25-30? no way! i can manage even up tp even, depending on looks anyways. but not 30!!!

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choco choco.....choco MILO!!!!!!!!!!!