Thats beautiful girl. Mi happy fi you.

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yeah, we'll just have to wait and see what happens, i'm pretty nervous about the idea, and i worry that my family would disown me, or that i would have to keep everything a secret - and i want to be able to share that kind of joy with my family. so i'm glad everything is just slow movin, takin sweet time right now. he knows it'd be near impossible for me to pull off legitly, so if anything he'll be a great friend for the rest of my life.... which is good too.

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Me too, I typically like guys a bit older because I'm 22 and I find other 22 year old men kind of immature. So yeah 10 year older than me is the MAX.

My rule is... if the man was old enough to have had me himself... then it's not a flex!!!!

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Gals: Age mek no difference fi happiness. It mek a dif wid how long he stick aroun. Mi hubby was 18 yrs older and he gone now. Ef yu hav a long relationship yu gonna hafta look at wha happen en di future. Mek no neva mind fi us cuz wi was en luv. Now de sex ting. Ef everyting ok de go on an on an on.
Now mi goin backwards en age an it fun!!! Dem yunguns cyan keep up wid mi. Di olda guys cyaan. So who mi gonna look at?? Huh Huh??

Jamaica Miss nuh easy at all..Mi always love fi read fi yuh reply dem cause it always mek mi laugh..anyay to anser the question..personally I wouldn't I am 23 right now so he would be 58!!!!eewwww!!!. just the thought of wrinkles!!
No i don't think I would butthat is just me...but i know a girl that is currently in a relationship with an olde guy and she said that she prefers older guys because they tend to be more responsible and Know what they want//younger ones only in for the sex and most of the irresponsible..her opinion..and I kindof agree with her..but i still wuldn't

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JAM i think that happiness is good, but, in 'my' age bracket. If me say only 10-12 years older, then happiness I shall find there. Unless, and only unless, he is such a hot shot that mi haffi deh wid someone older. Mi like the young ting, fi rock mi boat right and no slip and a slide and need walking stick fi hold up or catch up wid mi a**. I rest my case.

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PB: Don rest yur case! Yu go gal! Olda ain't fi everyone, but it an option. It was good fi mi, but memba he was only 18 yrs olda, not 30 yrs dif.
LuvJa: di accountat in mi cumin out. He wud be 53 an he wud hafta be able fi keep up wid yur ass an mi no he wud hav a hard time fi shure!

tank yuh fi dat correction..ah weh mi learn fi mi matamatics from...anyway yuh right bout that...but whether 53 or 58 still wouldn't do it..too ol' fi mi massa

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LuvJ: Yur avatar de bomb! Mek mi laf.

i think it explains my personality...!!!!!!!!!!and believe it or not...mi smile big
di same way!!lolol

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ok, heres another reason i just can't let this guy go - he's in kingston right now, and had a radio interview yesterday cause he is a musician and has his own band here in NY (reggae, soca style) when we met, he wrote a song about me, and he told me that they played it on the radio in kingston for ME yesterday!! how cool is that?! people called in and said they liked it too - i cant wait to hear the recording of the show!!!

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Goh deh gyal..Good fi yuh!! what is the name of the song..

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the song is called When Worlds Collide

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Here's my 2 cents (for whatever is worth) Rootgirl, PrincessB is given you sound advice, go with the flow, don't worry about de numbers.. personally I rather take my chances with an older man, if anything negative happen 5, 10yrs. down di road,mi still have a bit of youth in me, and preferably more wisdom of how things ago.... but if I'm older, going with a younger guy, something happen 5, 10yrs. down the road. Me gota start over, didn't learn a ting I already didn't know, and remember most guys are looking for the "spring chicken" ...

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"Make your words soft and sweet, you never know when you have to eat them" Saudi Prince Bandra

"We are unknown to ourselves,
we seekers after knowledge."
Nietzsche

hey thanks paz i truly appreciate everyone's encouragement around here. you guys really know how to help a sister out.... i'm feeling more at ease....

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