Yeah, notice that the time I was in that situation was with my EX-girlfriend. I was so wrong about her. But that was because she was hiding the witch inside of her that she released once she knew I cared about her and was willing to put up with SOME of her antics. Actually that happened with another one too. And the other..........Wait.
Hey maybe smaddy cyan tell mi wa mek di gyals dem tek advantage of mi kindness like dat. Dem waan always wait fi di moment dem know mi cya fi dem more. Like mi mussi weak or sintin'. Dirty mothe.........Sorry, just got upset about that. So, I'd hate to change the subject but why is it that girls do whatever they can to get me, and then they find out that I'm a caring and sharing person, (in other words nice guy in ruffneck body), they start making demands and changing the relationship to be all about them expecting me to go along with it.

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D, I dont' know why females do that. In my younger days I had been known to straight dump guys because they were too nice (in ruffneck bodies). I honestly couldn't tell you why except that a ruffneck is what I was looking for back then. Now....I take it for what it is...nice guys DO NOT finish last anymore because in the end it ain't going to be his looks that keeps me around. So tough it out boy, the right one will come. She just needs to come to her senses first.

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Nobody can go back and start a new beginning, but anyone can start today and make a new ending.

I used to just be this emotionless person but I ended up growing a conscience. Well maybe that player thing ain't a bad idea. I could certainly pull it off, if I could get past the guilt. That's something to think about for the summer. Oh back to the subject. Thanx much Jam, to bad most of di women like you are taken.

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No, I'm just screwed up. Actually, that's not true, I DO know what I want. I just regret that when I'm soooo involved with someone my judgement gets clouded. I need to pimp slap someone for doing that to me.

Thanks for the compliment though D. And I'm just dating, not taken. I don't qualify to be "taken" yet.

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Dating? Yaaaaaahhhhhh, JC.

Urban sometimes you are so darn wise, you amaze me.

And, D, an emotionless player is a bad thing. I like you so much better in that soul-searching way.

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If you've never stared off in the distance, then your life is a shame...

I do not believe in "Love at first sight"... that is lust...

Love takes time.... to me being "in love" is when you know all of a person's faults--- the good the bad and the ugly and still CHOOSE to love them anyway....

That is real love... at 1 month... people still haven't even relaxed around each other enough to be their REAL selves.

IMHO

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"Who can find a virtuous wife? For her worth is far above rubies"

Proverbs 31; 10

There's no time limit on falling in love....if you do you do. Why should it warrant an entire thread? Only the 2 people involved know the reason why.

Sorry, I'm grouchy today.

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JamCan - I'm sorry you are grouchy today! I hope the day improves for you!

But, what you just said is dead on, as far as I am concerned - and summarized in 2/3 sentences what I was trying to say!

hello everyone! I would like to introduce myself..my name is Babyloc from Washington DC and I came across your site by means of Google because I was interested in the chicken pill thing ( i know its a dead subject) but I thought it was a disgusting joke and wanted to check it out.

anyway..the idea fo love at first sight is romantic indeed but true love is somthing cultivated and nurtured.

A good friend of mine had a one night stand 20 years ago and is still happily married to her husband. Do I believe she found love at first sight? NO. She was most fortunate that her initial crush and infatuation of him was able to grow into real love. Many people mistake thier emotions, but you cannot truely love someone that you dont even know.

Good point Babyloc. I guess there is always the exception to the rule but the odds are not in favor of one night stands.

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Nobody can go back and start a new beginning, but anyone can start today and make a new ending.

I am beginning to think i like one nighters better though...

My dream man is still there.... in New York...

Mr. Big.... he never comes on here anymore but I do still talk to him...

he he he he he he

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"Who can find a virtuous wife? For her worth is far above rubies"

Proverbs 31; 10

or maybe Tre.... but he is totally different on the phone


but DANG that brutha is FINE....

Loves you Twisty

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"Who can find a virtuous wife? For her worth is far above rubies"

Proverbs 31; 10

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I don't know much... but I know I luv you...
& that may be all I need to know!

How do you meet them GG?

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