How do u bring someone from JA over to the States? - Page 31 - Jamaica Talk

kennjai · #**451** (**permalink**) 08-06-2008, 05:25 PM

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Originally Posted by Jomo's girl

Please define Oreo in this case?

i don't think i need to JG, you are a big girl and are definitely familiar with the term

kennjai · #**452** (**permalink**) 08-06-2008, 05:29 PM

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Originally Posted by Jomo's girl

That's funny. And, if you think it bothers me, you are wrong. Just makes me sad for no reason you will appreciate, so I won't explain.

Guess what? Open forum. I can say what I like within certain guidelines. Try to do it as nicely as my temper will allow.

who said it bothers you...did I??
and yes, you can say anything you want, just like everybody else
but you are the first to cry boo-hoo when someone gets on you
byt you instigate so many things

babyloc is right, you guys are FUNNY

NYCgirl · #**453** (**permalink**) 08-06-2008, 05:29 PM

The reason I say you are bitter has nothing to do with waht you expect me to say.......jealousy, etc. I would never guess that. I don't know you and you don't know me. Thereason I say bitter is......look at your posts....they are full of venom. you are constantly on here, getting real personal and nasty with people. And I'm not talking about on the threads that are already heated. Im talking about calm, friendly threads that are cruising along just fine without your input. And you pop up and say something nasty. That's what I'm talking about. I was lurking here long before I posted, and I have no personal beef with you. But your wierd, creepy, out-of the blue-attacks on random people make me think you are bitter and unhappy. Observation. Oh, let me guess......your next post will begin with LOLOLOLOL LMAO. That's getting real old.

Jomo's girl · #**454** (**permalink**) 08-06-2008, 05:30 PM

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Originally Posted by kennjai

i don't think i need to JG, you are a big girl and are definitely familiar with the term

Okay then. The term is lost on me in this case. Whatever.

GhettoGurl · #**455** (**permalink**) 08-06-2008, 05:30 PM

Do I have to lock this one as well for the day, I am sad, heart broken, at the loss of a fellow member and I can not deal with this crap today, reading every post to see who is insulting who, com'on can we try and behave even if its JUST for today???? All I am asking is for a little cooperation!

Jomo's girl · #**456** (**permalink**) 08-06-2008, 05:31 PM

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Originally Posted by kennjai

who said it bothers you...did I??
and yes, you can say anything you want, just like everybody else
but you are the first to cry boo-hoo when someone gets on you
byt you instigate so many things

babyloc is right, you guys are FUNNY

I'm just making myself clear in PUBLIC Kennjai. So there is no misunderstanding.

NYCgirl · #**457** (**permalink**) 08-06-2008, 06:02 PM

sorry GG. Feel better.

1stParadigm · #**458** (**permalink**) 08-06-2008, 06:11 PM

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Originally Posted by kennjai

I don't post often but when I do I like to think it makes people think

As an outsider looking in I found it's the ones who gets in such a tizzy and huff about this subject because they ARE the ones in relationships with Jamaican men and trying to bring them over here or are in a LDR with them
and when someone voices their opinion (based most times on their own experiences) and it differs then all of those people gang up on them and want to throw out the bitter or jealous word

word to the wise---majority of the time when a white woman is with a black man, it is NOT a black man a black women would even CONSIDER dating (not all now, I said most) so bitter and jealous they are not (there are always exceptions)

if you know you got the real deal with your man why get so mad, why get so defensive, especially when someone is making a general statement and not directing their comments to YOU??

maybe because those comments make you second guess your relationship, maybe those comments are hitting home to your relationship, IDK, but I sure find it funny that some on here could care less when this subject comes up and some "ring the alarm" and go out on a witch (or shall I say b*tch hunt) and then I look at whose ringing the alarm and then it all makes sense--well at least to an outsider looking in

let that stew

and dag, I didn’t know we have a true law officer here on ETJ

Very well said KJ.........YOU ARE TRULY MISSED!

1stParadigm · #**459** (**permalink**) 08-06-2008, 06:15 PM

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Originally Posted by kennjai

and I never said that, there you go assuming
i just said that most black women are not interested in black guys that white women date
I never said they are our throw aways, you came up with that all on your own

Dont sweat it hon, your words will be constantly twisted to suit THE purpose

1stParadigm · #**460** (**permalink**) 08-06-2008, 06:23 PM

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Originally Posted by kennjai

who? i haven't seen that
we all know you are talking about babyloc, but like I said I have never seen her tell you, lady sizzle, jomo, lilli, and whoever else is in a LDR, or mixed relationship that their MAN is using them, but don't deny the possiblity
there is a possiblity, you would hope and pray not, but there is ALWAYS a possibility, sh*t, it's a possibility my husband is cheating and using me right now,and welive in the same city, and house, i can admitt it and would hope not, but if it is i will deal with it then

Neither did I, but I did see at what point this became personal and I guess its just the two of us who saw the start of the "PERSONAL INSULTS"!

Hotteach · #**461** (**permalink**) 08-06-2008, 06:31 PM

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Originally Posted by kennjai

no i was trying to be nice and not offend anyone, but since you want to know, many of the BLACK guiys where I am that are with WHITE women are "OREO"S"

oreo
Term for African Americans that the black community is generally offended with for betraying their roots usually for dating caucasion girls, dressing too white, talking too white, etc. The term is branded OREO since they are "Black on the outside, White on the inside"

For those who don't know what this term is here you go....coppied it from the Urban Dictionary.....prhaps its a topic for another thread full of sniping bashing and namecalling...its not really the topic for this one.....

GhettoGurl · #**462** (**permalink**) 08-06-2008, 06:32 PM

I just dont get some of you

1stParadigm · #**463** (**permalink**) 08-06-2008, 06:34 PM

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Originally Posted by kennjai

byt you instigate so many things

babyloc is right, you guys are FUNNY

Co-Sign to infinity and beyond constantly stiring then, when folk respond, run off crying foul, but that won't ever change IMHO

1stParadigm · #**464** (**permalink**) 08-06-2008, 06:37 PM

I am not in an arguement I am stating my observations based on a discussion that has been going on for DAYS!.......I hope I am entitled to my opinion like everyone else on here has been!

GhettoGurl · #**465** (**permalink**) 08-06-2008, 07:23 PM

Everybody is entitled to an opinion, I just dont have the strength to scroll thru threads right now and keep an eye on who is crossing which line and who is insulting who, I had to ban smaddy today for being insulting to others.. I just wished with all my heart that you all would realise that these are just minor issues on the whole and that voicing ur opinion can wait for one sweet day... maybe im just being emo but I think I have a valid reason today and I wish that we could all shut up for one day, just one... in respect of the sad news that we have to deal with today... I just cant handle it and I do not understand that voicing an opinion about ANYTHING can bring satisfaction to anybody today...

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