Originally Posted by kennjai

I think that is the point, Kennjai.

Originally Posted by kennjai

we are talking about whats written on the board jg, not whats in pm's
why admit in pm that there is apossiblity but not in public?? I am not understanding
you don't have to put your business out inthe streets to admit that there is apossibility you are being used

we are talking in general, I rarely talk about my personal life on here or any other boatd maybe a few snipets but i can come on here and admit it happens

you are right i don't talk and know "you guys" personal situations, not interested,
others can only go off whats posted on the PUBLIC board, why not have your pm's reflect the same oppinins as in public?? (without telling your business, it is possible)
and "you guys" are for those who won't admit it that it does happen on the board

Originally Posted by Jomo's girl

no, it's not, i re-read what she wrote and read her loud and clear
but once again you and here assumed that that was what I was saying instead of really reading what was saying

but what's new

Originally Posted by NYCgirl

But didn't she mean arm? What's " on someone's ATM"? Using them? Oy vey! Back to that???

And Kennjai, I'm just saying what you said, but in reverse.
I am also saying that I suspect your feelings about dating them have more to do with THEIR preference than with yours. I'm saying if you saw the same men (but didn't know they had white wives, gs's, whatever), I'm pretty sure that you would not immediately find them unappealing.

Originally Posted by NYCgirl

Baby-joke....you're a racist and always have been. Talk about stereotypes!! I'll take my sweet cornball any day, over ANYONE that would put up with your angry bitter attitude.

Originally Posted by kennjai

thank you Rd, you at least had the sense to see that it was a typo,

and Jg, we get along on most things and have civil convo's but IMO, you are a sh*t starter, and then when it hits the fan then there's a cry of foul
if i said ATM i would not have come back and said it was a typo, but you, hyping up the situation to incite a argument, but that will not happen with me

Originally Posted by NYCgirl

But didn't she mean arm? What's " on someone's ATM"? Using them? Oy vey! Back to that???

And Kennjai, I'm just saying what you said, but in reverse.
I am also saying that I suspect your feelings about dating them have more to do with THEIR preference than with yours. I'm saying if you saw the same men (but didn't know they had white wives, gs's, whatever), I'm pretty sure that you would not immediately find them unappealing.

Originally Posted by kennjai

thank you Rd, you at least had the sense to see that it was a typo,

and Jg, we get along on most things and have civil convo's but IMO, you are a sh*t starter, and then when it hits the fan then there's a cry of foul
if i said ATM i would not have come back and said it was a typo, but you, hyping up the situation to incite a argument, but that will not happen with me

Originally Posted by kennjai

no i was trying to be nice and not offend anyone, but since you want to know, many of the BLACK guiys where I am that are with WHITE women are "OREO"S"

and many black women aren't interested in any oreo's except for the actual cookie,


there are some that aren't
and you can suspect what you want, but that doesn;t make it true
i have dated BLACK men that have dated WHITE women before (he just so Happened to be a jamaican) go figure
I apologize if I have offened anyone, but that was the only was i could get my point across

Originally Posted by kennjai

thank you Rd, you at least had the sense to see that it was a typo,

and Jg, we get along on most things and have civil convo's but IMO, you are a sh*t starter, and then when it hits the fan then there's a cry of foul
if i said ATM i would not have come back and said it was a typo, but you, hyping up the situation to incite a argument, but that will not happen with me