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Old 08-05-2008, 05:51 PM
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Re: How do u bring someone from JA over to the States?

ones that have a very large carribean community. where there are only 3 of us americans on the site of bout 12,000 members...about 500 activly posting members.

what are the stats here?
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Old 08-05-2008, 05:54 PM
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Re: How do u bring someone from JA over to the States?

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and BTW...if you were to visit other "carribean sites with actual carribean ppl".....girl, babyloc EASY!!! easy!

go on there with this nonsense and see what happen....i DARE YOU!

Funny how popular sites like Caribplanet and Islandmix....the VAST majoirty being carribean.....and you will NOT FIND THESE TYPA THREADS...ETJ.....MOSTY white women....and this is what you see day in and day out.......WHY?

oh and you will know that the women CARRIBEAN WOMEN on those sites. (when asked) will not sponsor/marry somebody from home for fear of being used for green card. ONLY ONE said they would do it. ONLY ONE!!!

go and read and maybe you will learn something yut
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What are the real caribbean sites? I'm not joking, just curious.
i belive i said "other" carribean sites

but the answer is also in the post..

sites where there is a carribean base and memebers and I, an ameican is a vast minority...where there are only 3 of us to the 500 activly posting carribean members ..

what are the stats here?
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Old 08-05-2008, 05:55 PM
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Re: How do u bring someone from JA over to the States?

And there used to be plenty carribean ppl here till they got ran away by this nonsence
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Old 08-05-2008, 05:59 PM
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Re: How do u bring someone from JA over to the States?

Oh yeah, my bad (this time). You HAVE referred to them as "Real" Caribbean sites in the past. Can you name one?
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Old 08-05-2008, 06:00 PM
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Re: How do u bring someone from JA over to the States?

I see the names, sorry.....nevermind. i'm blind today!
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Old 08-05-2008, 06:14 PM
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Re: How do u bring someone from JA over to the States?

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and BTW...if you were to visit other "carribean sites with actual carribean ppl".....girl, babyloc EASY!!! easy!

go on there with this nonsense and see what happen....i DARE YOU!

Funny how popular sites like Caribplanet and Islandmix....the VAST majoirty being carribean.....and you will NOT FIND THESE TYPA THREADS...ETJ.....MOSTY white women....and this is what you see day in and day out.......WHY?

oh and you will know that the women CARRIBEAN WOMEN on those sites. (when asked) will not sponsor/marry somebody from home for fear of being used for green card. ONLY ONE said they would do it. ONLY ONE!!!

go and read and maybe you will learn something yut
The vast MAJORITY (*Think that was the word you intended to use, not sure though, hard to decipher the broken English - are you getting help for that language issue?) of people on sites like Islandmix are outta the US? Sorry babygirl - you must not read the threads about the link ups in Brooklyn, etc... and hate to tell ya - I am on islandmix, joined it when I was living in the Caribbean - Something you might want to try, it might open your mind to the fact that there are other people in this world besides Jamaican -

I am so happy to hear that you did such vast research and only uncovered one Caribbean woman who would sponsor a man for a greencard - Personally, I know about 10 who are doing it right now - But they are being used as well, right?
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Old 08-05-2008, 06:20 PM
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Re: How do u bring someone from JA over to the States?

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u think i dont know this information? sad state...but is that a reason to marry somebody...cuz its hard for them to get a visa.....if you cool with somebodly marrying you for that...then good for you right, everything jamacian....not everyting bout going to ja find a man and bring him here...which is bout 80 percent of ppl here....THERE IS MORE TO JA THAN THAT!!!


I don't believe that I ever said going to JA was only to find a man - or that that was all there was to JA - You know little about my life - yet again, you assume - the old adage applies.

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Love and marriage are two verydifferent things that dont neccessarily go hand and hand. i am a beliver in love..i am not a beliver in being used and being stupid. nor am i a beliver in marryig somebody to get thema VISA.....when i was married..i wasntunder the shroud of this nonsence...but to each thier own...just when it blows in the face..noblody supposed to STH at it all?
Not quite sure how to decipher this post - English is your first language, isn't it?

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have an Antiguan man with citiezineship...of which he got ON HIS OWN!!!
- So, explain to me - How do you get citiezineship?


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but i do understand yu might be a little sensitive cuz you might be one of ones that we (my jamaican woman freinds) love to laff at...LOLOLOL
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pure entertainment! and nuff jokes
Yup, seen you in the clubs and at the reggae shows - Bitter hags huddled in the corner, whining about how the white woman is there to steal her man - Never a thought to open your mind to the fact that there might be more to the story that you know nothing about - But that's okay, baby doll - keep living in your jaded, broken English world - if you stepped out of it you might learn something.
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Re: How do u bring someone from JA over to the States?

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Yup, seen you in the clubs and at the reggae shows - Bitter hags huddled in the corner, whining about how the white woman is there to steal her man - Never a thought to open your mind to the fact that there might be more to the story that you know nothing about - But that's okay, baby doll - keep living in your jaded, broken English world - if you stepped out of it you might learn something.
God put me out of my misery the day I EVER show even a hint of being like this!!!!!!......I'd have to be dam crazy!!!!!!!
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Old 08-05-2008, 10:35 PM
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Re: How do u bring someone from JA over to the States?

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The vast MAJORITY (*Think that was the word you intended to use, not sure though, hard to decipher the broken English - are you getting help for that language issue?) of people on sites like Islandmix are outta the US? Sorry babygirl - you must not read the threads about the link ups in Brooklyn, etc... and hate to tell ya - I am on islandmix, joined it when I was living in the Caribbean - Something you might want to try, it might open your mind to the fact that there are other people in this world besides Jamaican -

I am so happy to hear that you did such vast research and only uncovered one Caribbean woman who would sponsor a man for a greencard - Personally, I know about 10 who are doing it right now - But they are being used as well, right?
U have a problem with broken english but you can understand patois?...LOLOLOL funny. ETJ aint english class and it aint that serious. But i have no language issues. i actually live in a proffesional world where i have to be exact...detailed oriented...thats how i make my money...BUT this is an internet forum..go ahead and make the corrections for me, i will appreciate it.

And i dnit have to do any research. its there in a very recent thread when asked "would you sponsor somone from home" and out of all of the responses, only one person said they would. not hard to read.----u only read and see what you want to cuz i never stated that EVERY one in this situation is being used...NEVER ONCE---but im not going to back down and say the vast majority that meet ppl on vacation ARE!-

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Old 08-05-2008, 10:52 PM
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Re: How do u bring someone from JA over to the States?

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I don't believe that I ever said going to JA was only to find a man - or that that was all there was to JA - You know little about my life - yet again, you assume - the old adage applies.

Not quite sure how to decipher this post - English is your first language, isn't it?

- So, explain to me - How do you get citiezineship?

Yup, seen you in the clubs and at the reggae shows - Bitter hags huddled in the corner, whining about how the white woman is there to steal her man - Never a thought to open your mind to the fact that there might be more to the story that you know nothing about - But that's okay, baby doll - keep living in your jaded, broken English world - if you stepped out of it you might learn something.
and i do know that you dont understand brokent english....so i will put it to you this way--

I was not even aware that you were a white woman nor did I/do I, care in the least. I am a believer in love. I am not a believer in foolishness. I do not believe love and marraige are synoymous with one another. Have you married every person that you have spoken "love" words to? The real motivation of a person wanting to get married to make the visa process easier should be carefully considered.--

u have been humored as you have humored me.

what is not surprising is the attitude that you have for black women.. What makes you think theyare "bitter hags" thinking you stealing them man?...i do not think that is the thought of those women....i think the disatain you may be detecting is directed at your attitude toward them and the fact that they KNOW you ar thinking they are "bitter" bout you having your relationship. Trust me, they are not thinkig bout you. AND you have never seen me hon, cuz i got no cause to be bitter or angry cuz my man or any man i have ever dealt with would not be dealing with you.....and any man that yu deal with, i would not......simply put, we would attract very differnt types of men.......................BUT if it makes you feel better thinking that smbody biter at you and yours...do so,

like i said PURE JOKES!!!!!!!!!!

and you are more htan welcome to do he spell chck for me...thanks
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Re: How do u bring someone from JA over to the States?

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God put me out of my misery the day I EVER show even a hint of being like this!!!!!!......I'd have to be dam crazy!!!!!!!
how bout that.....but belive me, she not the only one with that thought and attitude... and never wonder if it is THAT same attitude that gets her the attention she gets........

maybe she a mind reader so thats how she know what it the thought of others....or maybe she need to think this way to make herself feel better? I DUNNO?

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Old 08-05-2008, 11:34 PM
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Re: How do u bring someone from JA over to the States?

Lady Rasta,

You mentioned that your man got his visa on his own. Can you tell me how (you can PM me if you don't want to put his info on blast here). The reason I'm asking is that my bf and I would love to know alternate ways for him to come over here (on a more permanent basis than a tourist visa) without us having to marry (neither of us are ready for that!!!)
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Old 08-05-2008, 11:48 PM
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Re: How do u bring someone from JA over to the States?

I never look in this thread but dang y'all always pushing eachothers buttons!!!!!

All I can say is that just because ur black or white doesnt make you a Jamaican!!! It dont matter where you come from, ur NOT one of dem and you never will be!!!

Jamaicans, Caribbeans in general are very proud of their culture and I think thats fabulous, I wish my people would be more proud..

For the record, I have never been to a real local party and seen Caribbean women standing in a corner But then again I have never been to JA to see that, I assume that JA could be very similar to AUA and yes.. I stand in the corner too at the tourist visited clubs and mostly LAUGH out these tourists because they just look dumb PLUS the guys that are with dem are only sucking empty their purses, so I stand in a corner and watch with amazement!!!!!

and I do realize that the thread police has gone off topic
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Re: How do u bring someone from JA over to the States?

Well I just found this thread and was coming in to make a comment, but the topic seems to have changed, so maybe I'll just not comment.
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Re: How do u bring someone from JA over to the States?

No you should, people still wanna know, sumtimes a comment leads to the next and we stray off topic for a minute.. Please do post and help us get back
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