do u think couple should wait after they are married to have sex, like what the bible said?

LOL.... well since it is a little too late for me on this one... I will skip answering it.

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"Who can find a virtuous wife? For her worth is far above rubies"

Proverbs 31; 10

I have my own opinions on this, but I'm not all that religious neither. Hell I'm supposed to be Catholic and had a baby at 19! LOL

I think in hindsight I would have waited a lot longer than I did. BUT if you're in a commited relationship I think its okay to have sex. Some couples NEVER get married but stay together a lifetime. Are those people never supposed to have sex or bear children together?

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Nobody can go back and start a new beginning, but anyone can start today and make a new ending.

hell no! what if he turned out to be crap in bed? gotta try before you buy.

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Yes......even though i too am too late. LMAO!

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yes... this is not only based on a spiritual standpoint.. but also a logical one...

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if u and ur partner have a strong emotional and spiritual connection, there is no way that he will be 'crap' in bed... because u should both be so in tune with eachothers wants and desires and all that, that u shud both kno how to satisfy ur partners... and there is always communicating with ur partner telling him/her what u want or how u want it.. people will tend to focus more on sex in the relationsip (especially in the beginning) then the other more important things... hence the high divorce and infidelity ratios...

couples nowadays don't have their priorities straight.. sex should not be a 'make or break' component in the relationship... in my opinion, it shud be a 'bonus' to the spiritual and mental/emotional connection that u develop with a person that u are in love with...

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I agree! Personally I think you should wait. Staying with someone because of the sex gets old really fast., If you try...just attempt an try to hold off on sex in a relationship you are in, you are opened up in such a spiritual way to one another. Its sad that most people dont get to experience this feeling. Once you have sex with that person, its likely you wont stop. You begin to confuse your sexual emotions to those that are more natural. Sexual emotions are inflicted on you. Sex brings on these emotions, and you begin to thik they are how you truly feel. Its obviously not a bad thing to wait. Even if you are not a virgin, you can become one when starting a new relationship with someone you truly love by waiting. I say try and wait and see if you notice the difference with your spiritual connection.

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Until I was 20 years old I was "waiting" to have sex until marriage until I met a girl at a party, had a one night stand and thought "What the hell was I WAITING FOR????" I was pissed that my parents, church and other people told me to refrain from something that felt sooo goood and I actually agreed with them up until that point.

I'm not sure why a group of old grumpy men (who supposedly wrote the all truthful bible translated hundreds of times without any mistakes whatsoever) way back in the year 690 (no Viagra) would want me or you to wait to have sex until you entered a government recognized sexual union (marriage) in this century.

Yes couples should wait until they are married, single people should have sex with anyone they want and as often as they want.

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- STDs
- unplanned pregnancies
- infidelity
- divorces
- children growing up without mothers or fathers
- financial distress (due to unplanned pregnancies)
- psychological distress (due to unplanned pregnancies, infidelity, divorces etc..)

just to name a few reasons why people should wait ....

just because something 'feels good' doesn't mean its right.. sometimes there's so much pain for such little pleasure...

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Morally,it is the right thing to do in waiting until after marriage to have sex.
But in Jamaica there is a saying. "Mi not buying puss inna bag." So most of us prefer to test the merchandise before buying.

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I agree totally. i have had a great spiritual connection with someone and the sex was also fantastic. we had sex first and the spiritual connection developed in time. another particular one nite stand i had led to a 10 year marriage. sex can sometimes bring people together in the first place and from that other things develop.

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