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Old 11-19-2004, 03:53 PM
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Re: Would you date a seperated man/woman?

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Originally Posted by Crystal
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I am sorry that you experience that but, my ?.... to you is what anger you the most.

Was it because it if loved you so much that he should had been able to tell you any thing. Or was it that you could put yourself in the other person shoes.
I was angry for both of those reasons as well as others. Namely, he knew what kind of person I was, and knew I wouldn't be with him if I knew... but he still decided to have me in his life. Also, I was angry because if he lied about that... WTF else was he hiding? Furthermore ... there are so many women out there who are soooo willing to be with a married man, and don't see anything wrong with it! I am not one of those people... why didn't he go find one of those girls?

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Now I now he said that It was for papers but, did a question pop in your head that said if it was only for papers why could'nt you just say that and maybe you could have handled it better.
I think you misunderstand. I didn't stay with him after finding out he was married. He told me that stuff in order to get me back I suppose (although I don't know why). I did say to him that he was a liar because if it was a business marriage, then he could have told me..... even then, I wouldn't have been with him!

I regards to how I handled it... I think I handled it properly. I cut off his cellie and went about my bizniz Really though, I could've seeked reveng... had MANY opportunities to... I just figured it wasn't worth it... so I moved on!

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And lastly, how did you ever find out? and did he ever get a divorce.
Again... I think you're misunderstanding something.... I wasn't with him after finding out he was married, I don't know if he's divorced I don't really care... I left the situation after finding out he was married.
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