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Old 11-18-2004, 06:58 PM
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Re: Would you date a seperated man/woman?

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Originally Posted by Selah
You make it sound like dating a separated person is cheating.
That's exactly what it is. Adultery. Breaking the marriage commitment vows. Extra-marital affair.

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If there is ANY chance that the 2 will get back together or if there's a glimmer that the separation won't last or that the divorce will not happen, then I would be very wary about getting involved with that person.
What objective criteria can you use to evaluate the situation and gain the assurance you need that the marriage is actually over? The husband's word? If he is willing to break his marriage vows (a legally binding contract) to have an affair with you, how do you know his word to you that the marriage is over is true?
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Very waggish indeed.
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