You are so correct Miss Classy. And I will speak on one particular issue I am being faced now. I made a thread somewhere on this already though.

Even now in American's society they expect a girl like me SIZE 14 to be like a skinny and a size 3 or whatever. I am naturally a thick lady and I have big breasts and all ...it is not my fault my genes came out this way. Truthfully, I do need to excersice and TONE UP.. but my thickness will never go away. And while my other girlfriends are small and can fit in a Small T-shirt and wear it to work and still play it of professional, I can't.
So they look on me as if I am overweight and soooo fat. When I go to Jamaica.... it is totally opposite.

If they don't want to accept you for you, and see the true brauty inside of all the shabs that is on the outside, whether it be a man or a woman...then that's their problem. Loving you is more important before any one else can love you.

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