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Originally Posted by Abiyah tehila
LB!!! Me too. I sooo feel you on this statement. I think I give waaaaaaaaaaaaaaaayyyyyy too much of my self (be it time, love, monetary or whatever) in any relationship be it family, male/female friends. I dont complain. I can't help it you know it's just inante in me. I have been burned many times yet I still give. I always go into relationships looking to bring an enhance someone else's life. I never go in to take. I guess some of us are just wired that way.
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Ugh, isn't it most frustrating at times! lol The worst part is, we are geared toward those that we feel we can help...we always want to friggen save somebody! lol When i meet a self sufficient man, i always think, "Well, he won't NEED me, so what good will i be!" What u need to do my gurl, its also unfortunate, but we as women need to realize that a man wants to feel needed also, us independant women have a hard time playing the needy role, but just like we need to feel needed, so do they! Im needy, as far as emotionally, but financially no, and chores, i'll ask once, maybe twice, if nuthin, i'll do it myself!
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