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EXACTLY!! I haven't even read this thread entirely, but to notion that a baby only changes life to a certain degree!?!?!?!?! COME ON!!!!


Only a mother that doesn't care enuff about their child/ren or a girl that hasn't had a child would make a comment as such!!

Nothing about a parents life is ever the same after having a child!!!

As a mother... anything I do has everything to do with my kids!

I am very sorry but I still lead my personal life as well. Life changed, of course, I stayed with the baby at home for the first two years, I cannot pack my things and just go on a journey around the world as I used to.But i can still go on a holiday with my friends and be there for two weeks and I am the old Betty that I used to be....common.
I still go to cinemas, parties and dinners with y friends who are all childless and they do not take me any different than them.I have less time as the time is divided, have maybe 20% of time for myself and 80% for the baby but I am not chickening around her. My friends are all childless as it was their choice, they do nto like children so any time I am with them , we do not talk about my baby.Yes, my life changed but I still have my what I call college moments...And I am proud I maintained my private life to a certin degree, I feel i can give my daughter more then....

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