And here are the reasons why........

I have a child who i don't think its right to uproot.....from everything he knows.....family, friends, school...etc.
I am madly truely deeply in love with a man there, but i have never spent more than a few weeks in his company...we need waaaay more practice....
I have faith in my relationship, but i am realistic..he can't support himself most of the time...how could he support me?
I truely beleive that this kind of a decision takes a lot of time...thought......and preparation.....
If I ever get to the point where I could move there..it would be based on me being able to live independently and that is no small thing to accomplish.......I would do it some day, but not on a whim...and not until everyting right.....and BTW......Not till he marries me!

Have you considered moving there and decided to wait?
If you aren't moving there ......tell me why?

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