LOL...agreed!! Meeting the family is a great way to convince unaware ladies they are for real when their not.

I once met a guy who swore he was not like the rest...and I was upfront about what I would not tolerate. And when we got there..he just suddenly had no money and basically backed me into a corner where I had no choice but to pay for things. The whole time I was paying for everything because I had no choice at that point, he was ranting about wanting a good women, and not being in it for money. I never even stayed in contact..he called a few times after I told him to get lost asking for money...hehe I handed the phone to Kristi to put him in his place.

Words and actions mean nothing...time is the best test!! Like others have mentioned....things will pop up over time if you watch for them. Infactuation wears off ...and if your not giving him things and thats what he wants, chances are he will eventually back off in persuit of someone who will give him whathe wants.

Biggest piece of advice...listen to your instincts. If something seems off..it is!!

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