Thanks for the welcome JAMGAL. Real name is Selwyn (Sir Jam is a private joke between me and mi lady but decided on the spur of the moment to use it here). Planning to eventually relocate to Jamaica to join mi wife. Up to 2005 I had spent a month of each year since 1996 in Kingston checking out how married life is, but times hard now (unemployed) so I don't know when I'll see Jamaica again.
Despite me being British, wifey get turn down three times for a UK visa. Her name Marlene and she big like two of me but that's what me like - big heavy and powerful.
Found this site by chance from the reference to it on the website mentioned in my first post.
Anything else you want to know, just holler.