JamCan..... I have asked..... He actually asked me months ago, why I wasn't dating.... my ex (son's father) went to prison 3 years ago, so I haven't been involved, I wanted to make sure I was ready. I kind of always wanted him (the new guy). When I asked his answer was yes.... we have even talked about relocating, children, and what we want in the future. He has been here for 10 years and wants to stay because of him having a little girl. But for some reason we just can't get this thing started....