Wow, Lilly, I wasn't aware of Shandy - It's a tough situation to be in, and I know that when I went through it with my ex, I looked at flights a bazillion times - it took me 4 years and a tragedy to go back and talk to him face to face. Ironically, I had a trip booked for January one year, and he called on Christmas - talking to him made me change my trip and I ended up back in JA after many years of not going (kismet?)

Stay strong, and do what you have to do to heal, piece yourself together, rebuild, rant, rave, whatever - You know I am here for you at any time girl!

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