My 2 cents are that maybe we have to admit that sometimes we will lust. Accept the fact.
The next thing is not to act on it.
The third thing is to try and understand why we are feeling this way, do we feel a void?, is it a sudeen change in lifestyle, etc. We may find that the feeling of lust is to be expected.
The challlenge is to change the way we think about people, i.e. the opposite sex. See the beauty in humans and not mainly as sexual objects.

I think we are more forgiving and less hard on ourselves when we admit that we might be going through a vulnerable phase. It happens to everybody.

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