EXACTLY!
I'm Samoan, and he used the term "Ufa" (a bad word usually meaning "F*c^") alot that night, so when he pretty much told me that I was rude for burping (thats how I took it) I said what I said.
In hindsight, when he stopped coming around the family functions...I then started to overanalyze using that term. I'm around alot of Jamaicans, I go to so many reggae functions and Bombaclot is used so loosely. So when the dude stopped coming around, I thought maybe Bombaclot is like the Jamaican "N" word, and non-Jamaicans shouldn't use it or something. LOL.