I don't know why everyone had their panties in a bunch over you posting what you did. The dude's a dog. Wasn't there a TV show that aired such men (and I use that term loosely) once? Oh, and hi, I'm Mair btw (lookit me, buttin' into your stuff & not introducing myself first)

JaMiss: "Quit the stories and asking for visas and money."
Why don't they just come right out and ask ya instead of playing all the lame games in the first place?!?

I have a friend here who is well... stuck here due to visa issues & cant go back to Jamaica. (or he wont be able to come back to the states) He coulda used the moment to 'take advantage' of me, but instead he just flat out told me his situation & asked me "the question." LOL Suffice to say, it wasn't my dream marriage proposal, but I understood the situation and wasn't mad. I did decline the offer, but not after thinking HEARTILY about it.

Lilly, your story is such a bummer. By the end of reading your posts, and the posts on the other site, my jaw was sittin' on my keyboard. Absofrickenlutely amazing. I'd be glad to print off some "POISON" signs with this guys picture on it, and disburse them during my next trip to Jamaica. =)

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