03-26-2007, 08:32 AM
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Join Date: Mar 2007
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Re: In Love with a Jamaican Man
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Originally Posted by Relish
Because I am Jamaican and I know, and any Jamaican (especially women) who are true to themselve and are realiastic will tell if I am lieing or not.
Yard man nuh treat yard women as they treat foreign women. It's very much different. Yall (if you are not Jamaican) get better treatment.
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Relish,
That is oh so NOT TRUE.
Jamaican men are NOT noted to treat "foreign" women better than they treat their own.
I think that your personal case is based on the "new car" syndrome. You know...The one where you will treat your new car with kid gloves, wash and wax it every week, until you get "use" to it?
Then it would be lucky if its washed even once per year?
In otherwords, maybe its based on the fact that because your man has been around jamaican women for so long, then the "foreign" women seems more like a novelty. In time, that same man will treat her no better than he would, his jamaican woman.
99.9 % of the Jamaican men I know, will treat their Jamaican woman like a queen.
Though he may get involved, love or even marry a foreign woman he will never treat her any better (or any worst) than he would his native woman.
Most jamaican men are "color blind" and does not look for love based on ethnic or racial background.
Certainly we may have our racial or ethnic preferences, but once the choice has been made, the "treatment" is based on the individual relationship.
Ironically, in most "bad" cases I have heard of, the Jamaican man at the end of a relationship with a "foreign" woman, "returns" to a woman of jamaican descent.
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