i agree that it is easier to be single. you can do what you want when you want. i enjoyed it for awhile but then i started feeling lonely. the urge for me to be accountable for something is so strong! i've been taking care of foster children for several months and i wouldn't trade my lil man for the world. thankfully, my 2 yr old is versatile and "travel friendly" so whenever i wanna pick up and go he's all for it.