Originally Posted by lillith

its so funny you say this. I know i'm a big and beautiful woman however....

last november i was sitting at the bar in Trelawny and my friend Omar came over to chat....next thing i know one of the cleaning ladies had come over to talk as well...we were just sitting around and she she said to Omar that i look like someone she knew that worked at FDR....Omar was trying to figure out who she was talking about and she said that i look like "dat fatty gyal"...i was like "Excuse me???!!!" and she explained again...Omar almost DIED from laughing. i didn't mean to embaress the lady but i was insulted...after they both explained that it is MOST definately NOT an insult i calmed down a bit. i told her it was ok but where i come from it is NOT a compliment and i have a hard time understanding how it could EVER be taken in any other way then deragatory.