[quote=wisewoman;269308]Have you been to jamaica? I don't believe you'll ever end up in jamaica. she probably just told you that so that you wouldn't suspect she married you only to get into this country. that woman didn't go through all the trouble of coming here only to go back. they kill themselves to come here eventhough that is their home. if it was a wonderful place to live they never would have left.

the gov't makes it hard for U.S. citizens to be with people from jamaica for a reason. the reason is that they KNOW that 99.9% of the marriages they make with americans are for U.S. citizenship or MONEY. that is why they won't help you break your neck.

if you are smart you will keep your money separate, not have any children, put an ad in the paper announcing that you will be responsible for your debts and signatures only and don't co-sign any debt with her, and watch what you eat.

Be careful and don't end up like Lauryn Hill.
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what the hell? What does Lauryn Hill have to do with the topic of the thread? I'm really sorry for the obvious pain you have gone thru. I really hope that you dont allow it to consume and destroy you.