I know someone who cares about me deeply. I like to call him my stalker. He's beautiful to look at and was fun to play with. But, in the end, too many things did not add up for me and those that did were all wrong. I moved on. He hasn't. I am comfortable being his friend. Nothing more. I told him if he is comfortable with that, he can call. I still have not gone to see him on subsequent visits. If he starts talking about how he cares about me and blah, blah, blah.......he can stop calling. Caring about someone and being the right person for someone are two very different things. Just, please, take it slow and make sure before you commit to anything. Not saying which way it will work for you in the end cause only you will know that for sure. Just saying if you only go by his words, you will fall for something that may not be the true picture. You need to look at how he acts around you and how he acts around others when you are around. Don't set a bad precendent on how he can treat you. You must be very firm in that. Tell him exactly what you will and will not stand for. If you have to negotiate from there, so be it. But, do not let him walk all over you now.

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You can't go back for what you've missed
So make it count, hold on tight find a way to make it right
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So make it good, make it last 'cause it all flies by so fast
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