Actually I never pushed the issue of meeting his mom. When I was there last time we were gonna go but then the whole thing went down with the rental. We did plan it out one day with the driver to go and how much it would cost and when I heard the price I wasnt too excited about it! So see what happens when you think about things. You realize the part you play in it as well. I talked to him last night and a good friend of mine who pretty much has been the only positive one about this situation. I feel comfortable like you said JG just taking it slow and not making any quick decisions. People do things in ways we dont understand and thats what getting to know someone is about. Its hard because there are things I wonder about but in my gut I believe he cares. Whether that will work out in a relationship I dont know and I told him that. BUt hey while I make sure to keep my feet on solid ground why not enjoy the ride!!!!!