I used to never follow my gut, I was a lot like you Missty, making mountains out of molehills. As Ive matured and aged, i've learned to step back, breath, and look at things before jumping, I jumped into many things, including my Relationship with Rupert, but luckily for me so far so good 6 years later.
Ive been burned twice by JA men(living in Canada), and have learned from my mistakes, just hold tight, make decisons you are comfortable with, and remeber always love yourself first. A lesson Ive had to learn.