Ive been around here and talked to you guys and really got to like this site and the people. But I think I have been mysterious about my relationship with a JA man. Well I have sat here all weekend and have pretty much decided to end the relationship, I think. But I wanted to tell my story and what brought me to ETJ.

I met him in 2004 at Starfish. I had no intentions of talking to him as I had a boyfriend. He even asked me if I did and I said yes, and he said' "oh thats too bad for you!" I thought it was quite funny. My friends talked to him more and more and found him to be "cool" He even took ust out with a friend to Dunns River on his day off. It was then we started to talk. He told me about himself and things about his past relationships and family life. I found him interesting so when I was leaving we exchanged numbers. When I got home much to my surprise he called me and I called him. We began to talk on a regular about our lives and who we were. But I still had a boyfriend. I remember it was around Christmas, I had met him in November, and he said to me he wanted to talk about starting a relationship wher eit would be just me and him. I knew that I had a boyfriend, which I did not talk about, and that I wasnt moving to JA and he wasnt coming here. So I said well talk about it, hung up the phone and never called him back. He called me and left messages saying to please call him please call him after he saw that I wasnt calling him back. Finally they stopped and I moved on. Or so I thought.