To all of the ladies who have shared the experiences thank you, thanks for helping me through this awful time your messages really has helped me. It has made me stronger. not every jamacian men beat up their women but it really hurts when your own black man treats his wife like **** instead of his queen. domestic violence is in all races. To wise woman i am so sorry for your pain thanks for sharing keep your head.well done for getting on with life nuff respect.

To lady h thank you for your beautiful words. life at the moment is a mess even though i am going through stress, divorce and court cases, husband still saying not guilty self defence at the hearing waiting for trial.Even though i had two black eyes,split lip,both sides of my face swollen,nose bleeding, scars on arm,and hair pulled from scalp,my blood over my clothes he is a big joke i have to laugh or i would be constantly crying .

But let me tell you this i feel free i feel like a prisoner let out jail because i can wear make up now,wear fashionable clothes, i do not have to account for be late 5 minutes late, been hit slapped dragged being told i am nuting i feel free because he cant hurt me any more. i thank god that i am alive i thank god that i am not mad walking on road with my head tied with a scarve begging money. i really believe that their is a god and he is not sleeping. husband couldnt keep up with his pretence god revealed him. i went through this for a reason and i am going to learn from it and i am going tell my two beautiful babies that no man has the right to put the hands on them i want to break the cycle of abuse. i love every one on this site my father,grand parents are jamacian so i cant hate jamacians i just hate my husband for what he has done to me and the kids. hope every one understands god bless you all