Originally Posted by DiamondGirl

Oh wow...keep your head up! we'll help you in the humor department on ETJ!! It is hard right now...but there is always a light at the end of the tunnel! And...everything happens for a reason...you just dont see it yet!

I have an idea of what kind of man you ended up with..I was just lucky enough to see it early. I was dating a JA man from Ochi for about a year before I fully realised and saw what he was like. He was a real charmer, very nice body, great at many things...except was very over protective. At first is was cute and I admire how close he was...but then it started to become to much. On my last visit with him we got into an argument cause I left to go for a walk by myself due to an earlier arguement. I was trying to clear my head and needed my space. Needless to say...he did not like that and out of anger threw me down on the bed and started to rape me...thank god it didn't go that far though..I think he stopped cause he saw the fear in my eyes and stopped. Being by myself in a different country and wanting to end things on a positive note...I stayed and pretended to be happy and then finally left and never looked back!