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Originally Posted by p-bird
well i have listen to everybodys point. well i must be the biggest fool. I must be the biggest fool in the world. i was brought up in the church very strict grandparents. when i fell in love trust me i loved hIm world without end. i belived him when said he loved me because i am trusting person. we were together three years i gave him all my money everthing i had. he is now driving with a nice car. his borrowed money £10000 from the bank.
The first year was lovely but when he moved into my house he changed he became very possevie at first i thought this was cute. he then started to shout at me. I never could do things right. he then started to hit me,but he would be really sorry crying saying his stress because he has not got his stay and that his kids are suffering in jamacia. again i would give money. i am not a bad mind person and i thought if i helped him that it would make him happier. i was going to help go to college.
i recently had baby for him and we got married last year. i found that he was still in love with his baby mother he has 5 chrildren with two women in water house kingston. i planned to buy a house with him i was helping him to get his stay in england.
but he beat in my house in front of my baby daughters.he locked me in the house cut the phone and broke my mobile so i couldnt called the police. he kept punching me in my face grabbed me from the floor by my hair extenstion i was in a daze and the chrildren were crying.he kept saying look pon you you is nuthing do you know how much women want me. yuh gwen suffer fu.....duty bicth and other jamacian curse words. not going to get a penny for the baby.
i then started to vomit blood as the blood was coming through my throat. when he went to the car i ran with my baby put in her in the car i thought my other daughter was behind me she was inside the house my husband came over to me.i was scared so i locked my self in the car he told he wanted to have my top that i was wearing cause it had blood over. i went to the police station.i am not saying that all men are the same but they are some who make for bad others. my life is destroyed as i have no friend because he wouldnt allow me to go out as he belived a that lady his wife need to stay in the house. i wasnt allowed to wear any fitting clothes or no skirts. he use to say he is my friend i dont any more. my family warned me but it was like he had a spell over me.
he used to say he is the man of the house my voice is not supposed to be higher than his as he is the man.
this is true what he done to me and the reason he hit me because he wanted £250 pounds and i told him know i couldnt give him that amount as i have to pay for the rent and nusery fees this pissed of big time. i never dreamed of having another man i worshipped the ground he walked on. if i had another a man then i could understand his violence but i didnt.
i pressed charges and going through the crown court and trying to get my divorce. i am very scared because he always warned dat he would kill me if i call police on me. i am ver depressed my gp gave me 5 weeks sick leave. i fell that my life has been destoyed.i feel like a orange he ahs used and squeezed all the juices out of me and dash me a side.i have tried to keep brief. i just wanted to show people what has happend to me and to let women know if a man hits you trust me it will never stop trust me.at the moment
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WELCOME TO THE CLUB. THE UNBELIEVABLE CRUELTY IS WHAT SEPARATES THEM FROM THE REST OF THE MEN OF THE WORLD. AND IT JUST COMES OUT OF NOWHERE, SUDDENLY AND WITHOUT WARNING.
My cousin married a caribbean man and he:- pretended to be an angel until he was allowed to come here
- as soon as immigration let him come and he was in the country started treating her like dirt
- she had a nervous breakdown within 2 months of his arrival
- her and her son started vomiting and being sick a lot
- she tried hard to kick him out but he conned the police into beleiving that he was the victim
- she asked him to leave but he laughed in her face and said it was his house too
- he accused her constantly of cheating and the proof was the holes in her pantyhose
- the women (all of them) in his family were encouraging him to treat her like dirt and steal everything she had to give to them
- the one he claimed was his sister was his common law wife
- she began to open his mail and discovered more plots to take everything she had once he got his greencard to set the women in his family up in the U.S.- he ran all over the neighborhood lying to the neighbors about her
- he was conning people at church to support him with immigration
- everytime she was fed up he'd start crying like a baby so she'd feel sorry for him
- once she got him out, changed the locks and he stayed downtown at the bus station 2 whole day pleading every 5 mins on the phone until she felt so bad she let him back in and within a few days he was back to his evil ways
- he started stealing from her
- one of his relatives stole her identity and began to charge in her name
- he ran up telephone bills of $15,000 in one year calling to his homeland and airline bills of $8000
he tore up the plumbing, banged his car(she helped him buy into the house)-all the hateful deceitful women in his family were calling her constantly to beg for money and claiming there children were dieing of malnutrition. the same ones that were encouraging him to destroy and steal from her(his mother, sisters)-he disappeared for days at a time
- he had american women calling the house as a decoy to keep her off the trail of him and the caribbean woman
-after all that. finally when he got that greencard he left and disappeared
Needless to say her mental and physical health are destroyed