thanks for the replies every1. I always hear it's so hard for jamaicans to get a U.S visa but luckyD makes it sound so easy. I would do a fiancee visa but my ex won't give me a divorce. . .so til then , i wait for my freedom.

I'll have to check out caricom member countries then...as i don't think i'm going back to jamaica real soon as i spend a month in jail there on my last trip & to put it lightly IT SUCKED! i was finally let go as they dropped the charges against me.
That is why i am seeking another meeting place for us.