Well I've been to Ja 2 times, I met him during my first trip in April of this year, after I left we started talking and officially were in a relationship like in May or so, then my next trip was just a couple of weeks ago but I didn't go alone, I went with a girlfriend who is dating my man's cousin. We were interested in the visitor's visa because we just want to take it slow (no fiancee visa for us! ) anyway, he told me he would come pick me up at the airport and bring me back.

I will try to post my story soon.