Ok ya'll, thanks!

I've heard of some of the things you mentioned but I needed some reassurance..

I guess we will begin that process soon..on a side note.. my hunny cannot wait until the whole process is over to see me so he wants to buy me a plane ticket to go see him at the end of September and stay at his home.. I haven't travelled to Ja by myself yet though (always with friends)..I'm excited to see him again but a little scared. I just came back from seeing him 2 weeks ago.. is it too soon?