LOL urban - Thanks for the first thought always a dj! Music is never a problem, I would love to blast dancehall all night but I do know her work collegues are not "yaadies"!! We both however pretty much are!
Missty - There will be probably 30 people or so, some kids as well as her's are 9 and 13. I am going to suggest she register, she did actually ask me that.
Catering sounds good, cause usually we just always do the Jerk chicken etc for parties.

Any suggestions for halloween games? Ive been to a few parties mostly in the summer at cottages and we always had games, so funny seeing drunk people try to hammer a nail into a log!!!