Originally Posted by LuvJamaicanMen

How to Love a Black Man

The first thing you must understand

There's no easy way to love a black man

You've got to figure him out

Learn what he's about

And know he's someone you can't live without

Shower him with sweetness

But never let him mistake your kindness for weakness

It's hard for him to give himself to you

So be appreciative of the little things he tries to do

Let him know he can confide in you

And in return he won't have to hide things from you

So be supportive-Be his friend not his foe

When he makes a mistake don't say I told you so

Be understanding-not demanding

Let him unwind

He faces a world of rain

So be his sunshine

Don't get too cozy in the comfort zone

You'll take him for granted and end up alone

Keep love exciting and new

Go the extra mile

Keep finding new ways to make him smile

Remember to be sexy because without a doubt

He wants to be proud when he takes you out

Don't let yourself go, don't forget about you

Love yourself and he will love you too

Don't smother the man - Let him breathe

The tighter you hold on

The faster he will leave

And when you love him

Love him all the way down

Don't be afraid to explore him pound for pound

If you don't give him what he needs to feel

I guarantee that someone else will

Be honest, be patient, and demand respect

And a wonderful black man is what you'll get

Show him your pride, stand by his side

Let God be your guide, and love will abide