Kiki, aggressive sex with someone you know is a whole lot different then rape. I find the word rape in a sexual fantasy way to be very offensive.

Look at Windy's post again.....she is talking about an alley, first of all, not the privacy of her bedroom. And, she is talking about a stranger.

I am not judging anyone here. I am used to the talk of most of the regulars on here and take it for what it is. I am just saying, had anyone on here actually been through or known anyone who has been through something so traumatic as a sexual assault, they would not take talk of rape as a fantasy of any kind.

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