Junkgypsy:
I know how you are feeling! It is hard not to feel down reading some of the stuff that gets posted on here! But I believe you have to take risks sometimes - just make sure you don't risk more than you have! I went into my relationship knowing full well that I could get burned, but I was willing to take that risk. And so far I don't regret that. I will let you know if I feel that same way in 10 years time!

I hope it will all work out for you.