Attention is good as long as it is when you want it. I've had young one's turn into stalkers afterwards. They can be quite scary and really persistant. There is something to be said for maturity.

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Life's just a crazy ride on a run away train
You can't go back for what you've missed
So make it count, hold on tight find a way to make it right
You only get one trip
So make it good, make it last 'cause it all flies by so fast
You only get one trip