Okay, now I understand....You are one of the good Jamaican men beside my husband who is from Browns town and I am proud of you for standing up for yourself but that is just what it is..speaking for yourself and I understand that. Since I come to Jamaica so much which I just got finished with my 20th trip in five years coming to Jamaica the other day, we must meet up and talk over some good "O" Jamaican food....My treat..and when I say my treat that means you are special...just for being a good Jamaican Man! My father was a good man so I know that there are good men upon this earth honestly.. Love you much.