Falling in and out love can make you dizzy. It's a sign that you are addcited to some crazeeee love. Maybe it really isn't love. Some people just like the idea of being in love. If you're FALLING in and out of love, stop and check yourself. If you're falling ... is that love? If love isn't lifting you up, it ain't love! If love doesn't come home, it ain't love!
If love doesn't return your calls, it ain't love! If your life is on hold and you can't eat, sleep, work, study, pray, it ain't love! If love ain't loving you in return, stop in the name of love and love yourself before you give your heart,soul, body, money, time and peace of mind away again.

When dating, make sure you're both looking for the same thing. Sometimes people are not seeking their soulmate or a helpmate ... just a playmate.

That great girlfriend or boyfriend may not be the best choice for you as a husband or wife. Your expectations may be different. Don't be in denial or too desperate. Take your time and ask the right questions.

"Is this relationship about love or lust?"

"Is this relationship full of drama and deceit?"

"Does this person want the same things in life that I value?"

"Am I on the rebound trying to forget my last relationship?"

"Am I chasing or am I choosing?"

"Am I so afraid of being alone that I put up with less, mess and stress?"

"Is he/she here only for the good times and runs with the going gets tough?"

"The thrill is gone, but neither one of us wants to be the first to say goodbye."

"Am I experiencing 'Deja-fool,"repeating the same issues, same script, different cast!?"