Originally Posted by bountyx

All parent's take risks by bringing life into this world. Do you know all the things that can go wrong during pregnancy, after childbirth, not to mention during every stage of that childs life after that? Should parents be concerned that they are morally remiss by wanting to have a child in todays society which is rife with war, disease, and strife?

Yes of course there's always a risk in everything what we do , the problem is the pourcentage of risk that can vary from one to infinity, i mean a man in good health who didn't drink nor take any drugs still have a risk to make an accident but an old man who doesn't see good , who have drunk a bottle of whisky , took medicaments and drugs have 1000000 more chance to make an accident , that's the big difference .

I cannot see anything wrong with giving life. Life is a gift from God. Yes some people are born into less fortunate circumstances, but their life is still a gift. No human being has the right to say that another person should not have been born. We don't know how long that other child will live. Their have been babies born premature in very feeble condition who have gone on to thrive and lead productive, normal lives. Who is to say that the birth of that child won't serve some good in this world? No human can make that judgement.

i of course don't blame the baby to be born but the mother, i neither regrett that this baby girl was born ,i'm only worried for her health and education, that's all.

Like I said earlier, we don't know what kind of support system she has that could help care for that child. From the story, we do know that she was some kind of professor, and I'm assuming that means that she lives fairly comfortably. So providing for the child, to me, doesn't seem like an issue. As for love, I don't see why she wouldn't be able to love the child. The ability to love doesn't diminish with age. If that were the case, then many grandparents wouldn't have the significance which they do.

I never said that she won't love her child but that she will probably die when the child is still young so she won't be there to give her love .


Everything on the planet that happens, happens because God has allowed it to happen. We can't presume to know why God allows certain things to happen. All we can say is that, it happened, therefore, He must have allowed it to happen for some reason. I agree with you, that he doesn't support the bad things that happen nor is it His wish that people suffer etc. I don't think that view is a fatalist one per se. The Bible teaches that in the end, God takes action which sets everything right, and which is fair to all. Everybody gets treated fairly by Him when judgement, reward and consequence is meted out.
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